Wednesday, January 8, 2020

One week...

Well, we are now one week in of the new year/decade. The kids started back to school on Monday and it has been interesting, to say the least.

Monday morning I got a call from the school that Aubry was upset and ended up having a panic attack. But the experience ended up being beneficial. She was able to talk to a variety of different people who had a lot of suggestions for coping mechanisms and regulating emotions. It can be so hard sometimes being a teenager. I know it wasn't easy for me! But hopefully we can get on a more positive path and help to find ways to cope with her anxiety and everything.

Then Ashlyn threw up in the middle of class Monday afternoon and has pretty much been in bed ever since. Poor thing! She didn't get up at all Monday night. She ate a little bit of chicken noodle soup Tuesday afternoon and then had a small bowl of mashed potatoes for dinner. Then of course lots of water, 7-up, and some crackers. It seems to be lingering on...but she is starting to feel a little bit better, I think. She came upstairs last night for about half an hour to eat dinner and was wanting to take a shower...so that's progress.

I am still working and still loving my job working from home. I've strictly focused on doing law enforcement transcription. There are other transcription companies, but I only work for one at a time. Luckily there has been a pretty steady flow of work...even though it did slow down a bit throughout the holidays and into the new year. But I do love my job. :)

I got an email yesterday about a new Sims 4 stuff pack coming out. In this blog post, I talked about different ideas for Sims 4 and the very first thing on my list was a tiny homes pack. Well...they're coming out with a Tiny Living addition to the game! It's a stuff pack instead of a game pack, so it is a smaller expansion (and less expensive) that mostly just focuses on new items instead of a lot of changes to game play. But they'll have some space-saving items including Murphy beds which is great, but there was no mention of bunk beds or a way to make lofts with ladders. If it isn't part of the new stuff pack (I don't remember seeing bunk beds or ladders in the trailer), I think they really missed a good opportunity. BUT...it'll still be fun to play around with, I'm sure. One of my favorite things to do with the Sims game is build houses...so I am looking forward to the new stuff pack. :)

This evening we picked up Bandit from the pet cremation and memorial place. It's still so hard to believe he is gone. It's amazing how much pets can become part of your daily routine...and the absence of all their sounds and habits becomes a constant reminder that they're gone. He was such a good boy and we miss him like crazy.

I made chicken fajitas for dinner last night...one of my favorites! I never really ate fajitas much before Johnny and I started dating but now I love them. I really like the McCormick fajita mix...I think it made the difference in taste that appealed to me more than the fajitas that I'd previously had in restaurants. Johnny used to be the one to make the fajitas, but I took over when he started working overtime and not getting home until later in the evening. Now I'm a pro. ;) We like making enough so we have plenty of leftovers. I'd made taco meat for burritos, tacos, or taco salads for the last couple weeks in a row on Taco Tuesday so I switched it up this week for some different Mexican food. Mmmm!

Monday, January 6, 2020

Recipe: Volcano

I made Volcano for dinner tonight. Johnny grew up eating this and loves it! I make it just a little bit different than his mom does, but it still tastes great. :) It's also a super easy recipe! I also use Ore Ida Steam & Mash russet potatoes which makes it even faster. I also make biscuits to go with it. 

Volcano 
Ingredients:
3lbs ground beef
2 cans condensed tomato soup
1 can tomato paste 
2 cans cut green beans
1/2 tbs minced onion
1/2 tsp garlic salt
mashed potatoes, already prepared

Directions: 
Brown hamburger with the onion and drain. Return to pan. 
Combine the rest of the ingredients and simmer for 15-20 minutes. 
Serve over mashed potatoes. 


Wednesday, January 1, 2020

2020?!

I can't believe it's 2020 already! I was going through my old blog trying to decide what I wanted to do for a year-in-review post. The end of a decade seems like it deserves a nice, big recap. I went all the way back to 2009 to see what I'd done for the end of that decade. I had actually written a short little blurb summarizing the major events that had happened each year of the decade. So I think I'll do that again here. I'm even going to include the highlights of what I'd written from my 2009 blog post as well...just to get even more of an idea about how much my life has changed in 10 and 20 years. :)

Twenty years ago! 

2000: Graduated high school. Started college. Got my first computer. Quit as office assistant for the school district. Got job as a receptionist at a mortuary. Kevin and I broke up. Started dating XH.
2001: Flew to Indiana University and Chicago to meet friends. Got job as a reservation sales agent at Royal Caribbean. Bought a 1996 Hyundai Elantra. Got pregnant with my first child. Quit college.
2002: XH and I moved in together. Started working for the USPS as a Data Conversion Operator. Aubry was born. Vacationed at Kaw Lake in Oklahoma with XH's family. XH and I got engaged.
2003: Moved to XH's Gma's house after she died. Got job as bank teller. Got married and honeymooned in Eureka Springs, AR and Carthage, MO. Bought a 2br 1ba house in our hometown.
2004: Vacation in Monarch, CO with my family. Ashlyn was born and rushed to the hospital 3wks later when she aspirated. I got mastitis w/MRSA & had surgery. Went back to work at USPS.
2005: XH and I filed for divorce and settled on shared custody. Moved to a 2br apartment. The girls and I vacationed in Branson, MO with my family. Johnny and I met and dated for about 4 months. 
2006: Got job as an item processor at a bank. Dated Bryan for about 4 months. Started dating Jeff and we were together off and on for six years. I was diagnosed with peripheral neuropathy.
2007: Moved to a 2br apt in nearby town. Moved back to my hometown. Aubry started Kindergarten. I started back to college. Bought my first laptop. Hospitalized twice for MS symptoms.
2008: Got my AA in Psychology from Cowley County Community College. Started at WSU. Bought a 2002 Grand Am. Matron of Honor in my sister's wedding. Misdiagnosed as having seizures.
2009: Ashlyn started preschool. Johnny and I reconnected on Facebook. Bought my first DSLR camera. Had some professional photo shoots but decided I prefer photography as just a hobby.

Ten years ago! 

2010: I was hospitalized for 3 days with gastroenteritis. Had abdominal surgery and hospitalized almost a week. Vacationed at Lake Tenkiller, OK with Jeff. I was diagnosed with hemiplegic migraines with vasovagal syncope. Ashlyn started Kindergarten. Girls started girl scouts. Moved into my 3 bedroom apartment. 
2011: Ashlyn and I got scarlet fever. I got my tubes tied and was diagnosed with pelvic adhesive disease. Vacationed with my family at Great Wolf Lodge in KS City. The girls started cheerleading. I graduated from Wichita State University with a BGS in Criminal Justice, Psychology, and Sociology.
2012: I discovered Pinterest. Ashlyn got glasses. We took a day trip to OKC with my parents to visit the zoo and science museum. Johnny and I saw each other for the first time in 7 years and started dating again. Started my TidyCandi cleaning business. Became the Office Manager for Pride Pools. Bought my Kindle. 
2013: We moved in with Johnny. I started working with Johnny on pools instead of just in the office. We took the girls to the circus. I saw the MS/migraine specialist in June and started new meds. I was diagnosed with trigeminal neuralgia. Johnny bought my first Samsung Galaxy phone for Mother's Day.
2014: Bought a new fridge. Got my engagement ring. Saw Rob Thomas in concert. Aubry started middle school. Johnny's job at the USPS changed from data entry to customer service. I filed to modify custody and XH started a whole bunch of drama because of it. 
2015: The engine went out in my car. We bought a 2005 Ford Escape from Johnny's daughter. Johnny and I were officially common-law married (taxes, insurance). Took the girls to the OKC science museum. Saw Rob Thomas in concert and he grabbed Johnny's hand as he went to stand on our seats and sing from the crowd.
2016: Judge awarded me primary custody and we switched the girls' school. Aubry started high school and AFJROTC. Ashlyn started middle school. We rescued 3 kittens about 4 weeks old. Rehabbed and released 2 orphan bunnies that were just a few days old. Aubry got her drivers license. I got my first Happy Planner.
2017: I started playing Sim4. I had oral surgery. Much of the year was spent planning our wedding. Johnny and I got married on our 5th anniversary! Took the kids to the Pretty Prairie Rodeo. Aubry made the decision to stop having anything to do with her dad. We had unexpected house guests starting in October.
2018: Lots of car problems! Johnny retired Pride Pools. I started working as a transcriptionist and captioner for Rev. Aubry started drama club. After all the houseguests moved out we started rearranging bedrooms, repainting, and reorganizing the house. I drew a picture of Bandit to give Johnny for Christmas.


Last Year! 

2019: After a year of mechanical problems with the Ford Escape, we traded it in for a 2015 Hyundai Sonata. The girls each got a Chihuahua-mix puppy from a friend of Johnny (despite my objections). Aubry started her senior year and Ashlyn started her freshman year of high school. They were both in AFJROTC and stage crew for drama club. Ashlyn got her driver's license. Aubry started her first job. I started working as a law enforcement transcriptionist. Our Australian Shepherd, Bandit, fell ill and unfortunately didn't pull through and we had to put him to sleep. Spent the year focused on getting our finances on track. 


The New Year! 

2020: We're hoping to focus more on our health this year. Maybe we'll start riding our bikes more or taking walks in the evenings. We also want to keep working on the house and getting it all organized and squared away (like organizing the basement and garage). Aubry will graduate high school this year! We'd like to plan a day trip to some Kansas area attractions that I went to as a child and I want Johnny and the girls to see...not sure when though. Overall, we're just hoping for a happy, healthy, and pleasantly uneventful 2020.

Thursday, December 26, 2019

Thursday 13: Santa Claus!

The other day I was trying to remember what my daughters have gotten from Santa each year. So in the spirit of the holidays and my love for lists...I thought I'd write it down here to start some more Thursday13 posts. So here are the things Santa has brought my kids for the last thirteen years:

1. 2019 - The girls each got a Fitbit Versa (yay for Black Friday sales)!
2. 2018 - The girls got a PS3 and some games to go with it.
3. 2017 - The girls each got a Samsung Galaxy On5 cell phone from Straight Talk.
4. 2016 - Ashlyn got an iPod Touch and Aubry got Beats On-Ear Headphones
5. 2015 - Ashlyn got a Chocolate Pen kit and Aubry got a Sky Viper HD Video Drone
6. 2014 - Ashlyn got a Horse Stable for her 18" doll and Aubry got a Razor Electric Scooter.
7. 2013 - The girls got a 32" Vizio Smart TV for their room (which they shared at the time).
8. 2012 - They each got a pair of Adjustable Inline Skates.
9. 2011 - They each got a Nintendo DSi.
10. 2010 - They got a Nintendo Wii with a few games and my grandparents got them the Wii Fit Board.
11. 2009 - Ashlyn got a Fur Real Cat and Aubry got an Easy Bake Oven.
12. 2008 - Ashlyn got Ponyville Amusement Park, Aubry got Littlest Petshop Tail Waggin Fitness Club.
13. 2007 - They both got the Barbie Mini Kingdom Castle and two other set to go with it.

Wednesday, December 25, 2019

Holidays!

I haven't posted since the last holiday...but it's been a rough month.

I started a new medication hoping that it would help with my migraines, but the side effects were not great. I felt like I had mild flu symptoms (neuropathy like when I have a fever, body aches, chills, sore throat) and I was just so tired. For about a week I didn't have any headache at all...which I haven't experienced for as long as I can remember. However, it made my GI issues a lot worse...so I felt like I was just trading one problem for another. Sadly, I'm far more used to the headaches and migraines than I am the GI issues. So...I decided not to continue with that medication. It was worth a shot...now I can scratch that one off the list.

I've also been busy with work. I'm still really enjoying my job as a law enforcement transcriptionist. It is only providing a little extra income right now, but I'm hoping as things slow down around here that I'll be able to devote more time to it...well, if and when things ever slow down. :P 

Right after Thanksgiving, we had to rush to find a way to empty the storage unit that my step-daughter had taken upon herself to put all of my mother-in-law's things in. She informed us that she was no longer going to be paying for the storage unit so basically it was our problem now. Luckily between our car, Aubry's car, and my grandma's truck, we were able to get everything except a completely uncovered and unprotected mattress that was filled with who-knows-what out of the storage unit. Note to anyone who puts anything in storage: you can get zippered waterproof mattress protectors and tape around all the zippers or even get some heavy gauge plastic to wrap around a mattress and seal it with tape to protect it from bugs and critters in a storage unit. Honestly, anything fabric should be in plastic (put clothes and bedding in plastic tubs with lids, etc). Otherwise, you might as well just skip putting it in storage and throw it away...because you're likely going to end up with bugs and mice living in it. Ick. NO THANK YOU. But anyway...now we have a whole lot of boxes in our living room, dining room, office, and a few furniture pieces and plastic bins in the garage that I get to figure out what to do with. I'm hoping over Christmas break I can get the basement more squared away and move all the boxes and everything downstairs.

December was pretty busy for the kids at school. Not only did they have finals, they also had a school dance, Ashlyn had a music program, and they both had Commander's Call for AFJROTC which my parents and I went to (Johnny had to work).

We celebrated our Christmas at home early this year because the girls went to XH's parents' house for the first weekend of Christmas break and then they'll be home today. We went to my mom's house and my grandparents' house (my mom lives next door to them) to celebrate on Christmas Eve and then today we'll go to my other grandparents' house. That's all we really have planned this year.

It's just been a rough year. And unfortunately, this holiday season has been a particularly sad one for our household. A couple weeks ago our Australian Shepherd, Bandit, had developed a cough. He'd cough a few times then he'd gag like he was trying to cough something up. Then he actually coughed up a small blood clot, so we took him to the vet on Saturday the 14th. They took a chest x-ray and ran some blood work. His organ function tests looked good but he was anemic and his lungs looked pretty bad in the x-ray. The vet said that it was either cancer or possibly a fungal infection. So he was given some antibiotic and steroid shots and sent home with some antibiotics, steroids, and we decided to treat with anti-fungals in case it was a fungal infection. While his cough got better right away, his breathing became very labored. Finally it got to the point where Johnny texted the vet on Sunday and we took him in, because Bandit was just trying so hard to breathe that he couldn't sleep and he was just worn out. They put him in the oxygen cage and kept him overnight. They gave him some more meds including a diuretic hoping to ease his breathing. They ran more tests the following day, but unfortunately our baby's lungs and anemia had gotten worse despite all the treatment...not better. So we had to make the difficult decision to have Bandit put to sleep two days before Christmas.

Our vet clinic's new building has a separate "comfort room" for just such an occasion. There is a sectional sofa in there so it has a more comfortable setting. There is also a door that leads straight to the parking lot so you don't have to go back through the lobby while you're so distraught. The vet let us take Bandit outside...they even brought us a bowl of water and some fresh cooked chicken to give him. We spent quite awhile outside with him...perhaps too long. Outside of the oxygen cage he had to try so hard to breathe and he was becoming weak. We had one of the vet techs carry Bandit inside and put him back in the oxygen cage while they got everything ready for us. Then we held him and comforted him until he no longer had to struggle so hard to breathe anymore. Finally Bubbies could just sleep peacefully. :( 

It's been so hard. Johnny got Bandit as a puppy in 2010. He's been a part of the daily routine ever since. The house just isn't the same without him. All the cute things he would do and the noises he would make. The way he gave hugs and always wanted belly rubs. Just so many things that make the house feel empty.

I think Linken knew it was coming. In the last couple weeks, Linken had been very attached to Bandit. He kept wanting to sit or lay down next to him. I think Linken was trying to "be there" for him when Bandit wasn't feeling good. And while Bandit used to get annoyed with the puppies invading his space for too long, he didn't seem to mind Linken wanting to be close.


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Not that it's ever easy, but it's just such a hard time of year to go through this. It's hard to gather and celebrate family and be joyful when such a special part of your family is no longer there. But...I'm so thankful he got to enjoy one more snow fall. He has always loved going out and eating the snow and ice... 
Bandit Pride
aka Bubbies
January 27, 2010-December 23, 2019